Procrastination..: February 2007

Hmm..I woke up on the right side of the bed today..feels refreshed and delighted about life..wanting to pass on my good spirits...I decide to post some stuffs I received in the email in my blog as tips for my Single & available guy friends...
Though they look above average,are nice,perfect gentlemen...they are still single..
Nope they are not GAY (at least not that I know of)

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Here Are The Top NINE Reasons Why Men Fail With Women -

And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

1) Being Too Much Of A "Nice" Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys? Of course you have. I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. What's going on here?
It's actually very simple. Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, but get over it. Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

2) Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested? Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, ever. You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning. Think about it. If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that by being "reasonable" with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea. Another one that will never work.

3) Looking For Her Approval Or Permission In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea. Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here. You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval

4) Trying To Buy Affection With Food And Gifts How many times have you take a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
Well guess what? It's only natural when this happens... When you do these things, you send a clear message: "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation.

5) Sharing How You "Feel" Too Early With Her Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare. They get a LOT of attention from men. Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another all the time by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a day by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often hundreds of times per month.
And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a lot of men. That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect. And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way...

6) Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For Her Women are different from men. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women? Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, after studying this topic for over 14 full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them feel than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman. But it's not an accident.
You have to LEARN how to do this. And ANY guy can learn how...

7) Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age. And sure, there are women who are only interested in these things. But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks. There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet... And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

8) Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission. Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women. Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants. Another bad idea... Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over. Women aren't attracted to Wussies! ===Personally I think this applies to me as a woman = (

9) Not Knowing What To Do In Each Type Of Situation A woman always knows what you're thinking. I know, it might be hard to believe. But if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don't know HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help! And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating... Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything. If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.

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Ps: If u had bothered to read every single word of this post and is a guy..I'm very sure u are gonna land urself up with a girl ! U would have impressed me with ur determination! Cos even I myself cannot be bothered to read the entire contents of it..whahaa

Shop shop shop !
Items bought :
* 1 basic tee from Dorothy Perkins (simplicity is the best)
* 1 pair of Levis Girls Straight cut jeans..
* 1 pair of flip flop lok kok slipper..from ESPRIT..siao siao lol
* 1 pair of high heels from Charles&Keith
* 1 wash off mask, watermelon for hydrating effect (skinFood)
* 1 mini tub lip balm (skinFood)
* 1 lip colour brush (skinFood)
* 1 tub loose powder..with high vitamin E concentrations..dunno true or bluff wan..(skinFood)

Result = I love shopping ..Anyday I rather self tret thru retail therapy rather than go psychiatrist...lol

After that go meet xy and adeline, headed over to Mer house for steamboat..yummy yummy soup..Mer's parents were great! Perfect hosts hehe..and as usual I ate till happy happy

After dinner went to Benji's place..where I played 10 minutes of mahjoing before going off to meet my friend for a late night movie : Just Follow Law...I like the movie..I'm a fan of local productions to begin with...I can relate to the movie & its hilarious..Whahahaha

Haiz...3 a.m supper ..2 days in a row..God Bless